break-thru-points

QR 07042011: an ‘empty vase’

ferdiarcha — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 04:08:49 +0000

nothing annoyed me more compare to a shallow mind.
deals only with race, color or your likes? in the 21th century?
yeah, right. you must be just wake up after sleeping in a cave, yet still walking with your shell around.
see the outer world, you maybe amazed on how people judge the likes of you.
so, why don’t start to see outside the box?
get a life…

Sang Kata Ajaib: “tolong…”

ferdiarcha — Tue, 05 Apr 2011 03:06:00 +0000

” jangan menggunakan jari telunjuknya ya, dek Ferdi. Salah itu, kalo pake jari telunjuk, ga sopan. Sama siapa saja. Dan selalu bilang kata, “tolong…”.

Senyum menghiasi wajah saya ketika menulis kutipan di atas yang berasal dari seorang rekan ketika kami sedang mengobrol. Obrolan yang diawali dengan percakapan ringan hingga yang seberat prinsipil. Hahaha… jarang benar ketemu dengan orang yang bisa diajak bicara mengenai hal-hal serius seperti ini.

Tetapi, memang harus diakui, bahwa dengan kata “tolong” itu, suasana yang tercipta akan sangat berbeda. Dengan satu kata itu kekakuan dan jarak dalam satu hubungan, apapun itu, akan terhapus. Atau setidaknya, bagi saya, demikian.

QR 05042011: Dapple

ferdiarcha — Tue, 05 Apr 2011 03:03:14 +0000

Literally means a small contrasting spot or blotch, coming from the Old Norse depill meaning a spot.

Contrasting spot. One thing indicated something, someone. Itself, him or her selves. An identity of one being.

Bring it to life, everybody has their own dapples. In any form.
One which is different from others. Therefore, unable to copy, or personified against others. An identity of self, unable to copy or personified against others. It is as it is.

I, somehow, notice that people nowadays tend to implant their point of view towards other, without remembering that other people have their own thoughts, own standards, own judgment, identifying themselves.

Self-righteous?? Maybe. But it happens…recently.